I was living at my baby daddy coparenting, when I met my now boyfriend. It was hell living there, don't know why I gave up my own comfort because of my kids, well out of love but it was the worst mistake ever. I got a job at a hotel on the north coast in Montego bay. I met my now boyfriend three years prior at a different hotel and we ran into each other at the other hotel and we hit it off from there. One time we made love and he put a hickey on my neck and my baby daddy beat me up coz of it even though we were not in relationship he said I disrespected him. I stayed coz of the kids. My boyfriend met in an accident in October last year, he had to move in back with his family after the accident. We were planning to move in together, but that didn't work out. Fast forward to February 2026 , one Saturday I called in coz I was not feeling well. My daughter had ask me for money to do her hair, after she asked her dad and he lied that he didn't have any money. He came by the house and asked me why I didn't give her money to do her hair, I told him I did, he was upset because she had asked him. The boy flash out a catta of 5000 bills on me, so I got upset and said u come asking why I never, which I already did, boy get vex and start telling lies that I don't spend on the kids which was a lie coz when mi get mi pay it done on the kids them and hardly have anything for myself. Big scamma come fight mi coz mi say to him why him have so much money and it was just 2000 she needed and he was watching me with my little pay and a say mi a watch him money. After the fight I decided I'm not gonna live there anymore. I left the next morning resigned from my job coz I moved to another parish i didn't take the kids coz I didn't have a stable place to go, and with my boyfriend living at his mom since his accident didn't have anywhere to go. We are trying to get a place to rent to move in together. My life has been so complicated. Even though my bf don't have it much I love him and he loves me, a love I have never gotten before. I recently came back to Montego Bay to try get a place there coz things weren't working out in the other parish. Was I wrong to leave where my kids are living from the abuse?